This blog is about my past experiences on the dating and pick-up scene. Some will make you smile. Some will make you laugh. Others will make you sick. But they are all true. Only the names and locations have been changed to protect the innocent (and not so innocent). There was some interesting discussion on the seduction forum about ASD, which I really got into. The premise was that a lot of things that are supposedly more "alpha" actually lower ASD (her resistance to sex).

We believe that they are attractive to women BECAUSE they are pushy and go after what they want (alpha). But because they are pushy they take the responsibility for sex away from women. So the women don't have to feel bad after, i.e. "He was a pushy jerk and I had no choice!" Also, if you tell women about other women you are sleeping with, it makes you more attractive obviously, but ALSO, it gives her the green light to have sex with you since she already has the implied approval of other women

A woman can't be called a slut if she is one of many women having sex with you. So when a woman is already attracted to you but won't sleep with you, you should really work on lowering her ASD instead of trying to get her more attracted by acting more "alpha" (e.g. more cocky-funny, etc.). You just have to give her an excuse to act on her attraction (plausible deniability). It really made me wonder how much effort I should spend towards making myself more "alpha"

And of course (overanalysing a bit), there is the possibility that being "alpha" and "lowering ASD" are actually a result of the same actions. Most everything that lowers her ASD are the same things which can be considered alpha behaviour. Things like, taking charge, keeping your frame, not supplicating, showing leadership, persisting, playing hard to get, etc. So by association (more overanalysis), shit tests are not really tests to see if you are alpha